2025年10月18日，向太陳婉珍在社交平臺發布一段引發熱議的視頻，以“富家女下嫁男演員”為例，暗指娛樂圈男星竇驍與富家女何超蓮的婚姻狀態，稱兩人因經濟矛盾及女方家族防備問題正在鬧離婚。這段視頻迅速在網絡引起討論，成為娛樂圈近期焦點話題。

向太在視頻中指出，竇驍為娶何超蓮而付出巨大代價，網傳婚禮花費高達8000萬港幣，但婚後未獲得女方家族的經濟支持，婚姻中涉及的房產也全部登記在何超蓮名下。此外，向太稱自己對女婿的防備如“防賊”，暗示家族對竇驍存在明顯戒心。由此，雙方矛盾逐漸激化：男方認為付出巨大卻未得到資源扶持，而女方則對男方的“撈男”態度不滿，雙方冷戰已接近一年，在社交平臺上幾乎零互動。

事件中有多個細節被網友認為佐證這種矛盾。竇驍缺席賭王家族重要活動，與其他房的女婿形成鮮明對比；在三太生日照中，竇驍站位疏離，顯示似乎未獲女方家族認可。最近一次公開互動被指是在2025年5月何超蓮生日，竇驍僅在固定時間點送出祝福，而女方延遲回應且態度冷淡，IP地址顯示兩人已分居兩地。

此事在網絡上也引發多重爭議與質疑。部分網友指出，兩人僅舉辦婚禮卻未領結婚證，法律上並非夫妻身份；港媒爆料稱何超蓮已有新戀情，而竇驍則專注拍戲“賺錢回血”。此外，向太因談論他人私事而被批評越界，但視頻仍獲得大量點讚，且網友在評論中提及“竇驍何超蓮”時，多數情況下未被刪除或遮罩，似乎默認其言論。

目前雙方的現狀顯示，竇驍專注於演藝事業，拍攝新作品、參與活動；而何超蓮則經營個人品牌，在公開場合兩人零合體。婚姻狀態仍不明朗，外界對兩人是否正式分居或離婚持各種猜測，成為近期娛樂圈關注的熱點話題。

On October 18, 2025, Hong Kong socialite Cheng Wan-jan (commonly known as Xiang Tai) posted a video on social media that quickly became a hot topic in the entertainment world. Using the example of a “wealthy woman marrying an actor,” she indirectly referred to the relationship between actor Dou Xiao and heiress Hetao He (He Chao-lian), suggesting that the couple was experiencing marital problems, largely due to financial conflicts and family interference. The video sparked widespread discussion online.

In the video, Xiang Tai claimed that Dou Xiao had spent a reported HKD 80 million on their wedding to marry He Chao-lian, but after the marriage, he received no financial support from her family, and all properties were registered under her name. Xiang Tai also suggested that she personally viewed her son-in-law with caution, likening it to “guarding against a thief,” implying a lack of trust from the family. The tension reportedly escalated as Dou Xiao felt he had invested too much without adequate support, while He Chao-lian was reportedly dissatisfied with what she perceived as Dou Xiao’s opportunistic behavior. The couple has reportedly been in a cold war for nearly a year, with minimal interaction on social media.

Several details cited by netizens appear to support the claims of discord. Dou Xiao has skipped major family events compared to other sons-in-law in the family, and in photos from Xiang Tai’s birthday, he appeared physically distanced, suggesting he was not fully accepted by the family. Their last public interaction was reportedly during Hetao He’s birthday in May 2025, when Dou Xiao sent a timed greeting and He Chao-lian responded late and somewhat coldly. IP data indicated that they were living in separate locations at the time.

The issue has also generated controversy and skepticism. Some netizens pointed out that the couple held a wedding ceremony without officially registering their marriage, meaning they are not legally married. Hong Kong media reported that He Chao-lian may have a new partner, while Dou Xiao has focused on his acting career to “earn back his losses.” Xiang Tai was criticized for overstepping by discussing the private affairs of others, though the video received significant likes, and comments mentioning “Dou Xiao and He Chao-lian” were largely left unmoderated, suggesting tacit approval.

Currently, Dou Xiao is concentrating on his acting career, participating in new projects and public appearances, while He Chao-lian is focusing on managing her personal brand. The two have not been seen together publicly, and their marital status remains ambiguous. Speculation continues about whether they are formally separated or heading toward divorce, making this a major topic of discussion in the entertainment industry.