社論:烏克蘭的女生好追嗎?

2025-11-03

烏克蘭的女生好追嗎?這問題其實沒有標準答案,主要還是取決於你自己的條件與態度。根據當地婚姻介紹所的資料,烏克蘭女性最希望嫁去的國家通常是美國、英國、加拿大、澳洲等英語系國家,其次才是德國、法國及其他西歐國家,這些地方距離她們的家鄉也比較近。

至於亞洲男性,普遍因身材較為矮小,在外貌上並非她們的首選。不過,隨著韓流(K-pop)與韓劇的流行,韓國與日本的男性形象在烏克蘭漸漸變得受歡迎,如果是嫁到韓國或日本,她們也會覺得可以接受。

目前在烏克蘭的亞洲人以中國人最多,有些烏克蘭女生對中華文化很有興趣,甚至會學中文,希望將來能從事國際貿易或翻譯相關的工作。雖然她們不像部分亞洲女性那樣強調男方一定要有車有房,但經濟能力仍是關鍵——你必須能負擔她與未來家庭的生活開銷。她們有時會想回烏克蘭探親,光是機票費用就不是小數目,因此穩定的收入與一定的存款是必要的。如果你打算帶她回亞洲生活,那在食衣住行、教育與娛樂等方面的開銷,也都要提前做好準備。在溝通上,最好能說英語,並學一點基礎的俄語或烏克蘭語。若完全依賴翻譯軟體,交流會很辛苦。想追烏克蘭女生,通常要在當地長住一段時間,積極參加活動、融入社交圈,多與人互動。千萬不要太內向,如果感覺她對你有好感,就要勇於主動,不然很容易錯過機會。

以我自己長年居住在烏克蘭的經驗來看,烏克蘭女生既可以說是「好追」,也可以說是「難追」。如果她對你一見鍾情,關係進展會非常快。我的英文流利,又持有外國護照,所以經常有女生主動和我搭話。不過,也要小心她們的動機——例如在基輔,有些女生只是想讓我幫她們買咖啡,並非真的有興趣。相較之下,在其他城市,女生的態度普遍更熱情,也比較容易交到真心朋友。

整體而言,對一般亞洲男性來說,要追烏克蘭女生並不容易。她們雖然多數家境普通,但不會因為金錢就輕易交往。你必須花時間相處,讓她感受到你的誠意、責任感與善良。值得一提的是,部分韓國人或年輕中國留學生來這裡只是尋求一夜情,導致亞洲男性在當地的形象受損。因此,如果你真心想發展穩定關係,記得要表現出誠懇與長遠的交往意願,這樣才有機會打動她的心。

Are Ukrainian women easy to date?

The answer really depends on your own qualities and how you approach them. According to local matchmaking agencies, Ukrainian women’s top choices for marriage are usually men from English-speaking countries — the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada, and Australia. Following that, they often prefer Western European countries like Germany and France, partly because of their geographical proximity.

When it comes to Asian men, many Ukrainian women are less interested due to differences in height and physical build. However, thanks to the global popularity of K-pop and Korean dramas, perceptions have shifted — marrying someone from Korea or Japan is now seen as acceptable, even appealing, to some.

Currently, the largest group of Asians living in Ukraine are Chinese. Some Ukrainian women are genuinely interested in Chinese culture and even study Mandarin, hoping to work in international trade or translation. Although they don’t necessarily demand a man to own a house or a car, financial stability is still very important. A man must be capable of supporting her and future children, including expenses like travel — for example, visiting her family in Ukraine can be quite costly. In short, if you plan to bring her to live in Asia, you’ll need to be prepared for the significant living expenses involved in daily life, education, and leisure.

 

Language is another key factor. You should be able to speak English, and it’s even better if you can learn some basic Russian or Ukrainian. Relying solely on translation apps can make communication difficult. To have a real chance at dating a Ukrainian woman, you’ll likely need to live there for a while — join local events, make friends, and interact with people often. Don’t be too shy. If she seems interested in you, be confident and take the initiative, or you might miss your opportunity.

From my own experience living in Ukraine for many years, I’d say Ukrainian women are both “easy” and “hard” to pursue — it depends on the situation. If a woman is instantly attracted to you, things can develop quickly. I’m fluent in English and hold a foreign passport, so many women often approach me for conversation. But it’s important to understand their intentions — in Kyiv, for example, I’ve been approached by women who were just trying to get me to buy them coffee. In other cities, though, women tend to be warmer and more sincere, and it’s easier to make genuine friends.

Generally, it’s not easy for Asian men to win over Ukrainian women. Even though many of them don’t come from wealthy backgrounds, they won’t date someone just for money. You need time and sincerity — to show that you’re responsible, kind, and serious about the relationship. Unfortunately, some Korean men and young Chinese students come here seeking only one-night stands, which has hurt the reputation of Asian men overall. So, if you truly want to build a meaningful relationship, you must show genuine affection and long-term intentions. That’s what gives you the real chance to win her heart.