2025年10月4日，濟南一名29歲青年蘇陽陽因家庭催婚及理髮問題與家人發生爭執後，獨自前往玉函山，從此失聯。蘇陽陽是一名211高校畢業生，其家人回憶，他離家前在廁所將自己剃光頭髮，母親痛哭表示：“孩子啊，我只是說說而已！”事件隨即引發社會廣泛關注。

事發當日上午，蘇陽陽因與母親的爭執而心情激動，剃掉頭髮後離家。13:18，他騎電動車前往玉函山公墓，抵達後棄車步行進山。監控畫面顯示，他曾使用手機查詢路線，神情平靜，並未攜帶身份證件。當天下午約16時，他正常參加公司視頻會議，但隨後手機關機，自此失聯。

家屬在當日晚間報警後，警方聯合消防部門、民間救援隊及驢友等200多人展開搜救行動。然而，玉函山地形複雜，加之連日降雨導致能見度低、救援設備受限，搜救過程主要依靠人力摸排。經過9天的努力，10月13日16:20，一名驢友在玉函山大澗溝方向的斷崖底部發現蘇陽陽的遺體，距其家僅約2公里。遺體發現時，右手緊握手機，電量已耗盡，推測他曾嘗試求救但未果。警方初步排除了他殺可能，認為其在天黑、大霧及近視影響下誤判路線，翻越步道欄杆時不慎失足墜崖。

事件發生後，引起社會對家庭溝通與情緒疏導的討論。雖然家屬否認“催婚逼人”是事故直接原因，稱爭執僅為生活瑣事，但網民熱議“成年人的情緒困境”，提醒大家在進行戶外活動時注意安全，尤其獨行時更需謹慎。救援人員亦呼籲公眾避免對家屬作出惡意揣測，強調此次事故屬意外，與家庭矛盾並無直接關聯。整起事件反映現代都市青年在家庭壓力、情緒管理及戶外安全等多方面的現實挑戰，引發社會深思。

On October 4, 2025, a 29-year-old man from Jinan, Su Yangyang, went missing after a dispute with his family over marriage pressure and a haircut. Su, a graduate of a 211 university, reportedly shaved his head in the bathroom before leaving home. His mother tearfully remarked, “My child, I was just saying it!” The incident quickly drew widespread attention.

That morning, following the argument with his mother, Su left home in a distressed state. At 13:18, he rode an electric scooter to the Yuhan Mountain Cemetery, abandoned the scooter, and continued on foot into the mountains. Surveillance footage showed him calmly checking directions on his phone, carrying no identification. Around 16:00, he participated in a company video meeting as usual, but his phone was later turned off, and he disappeared thereafter.

That evening, his family reported him missing. Police, together with firefighters, volunteer rescue teams, and hikers—more than 200 people in total—launched a search operation. The complex terrain of Yuhan Mountain, combined with continuous rain and low visibility, limited the use of rescue equipment, so the search relied heavily on ground personnel. After nine days, at 16:20 on October 13, a hiker discovered Su’s body at the bottom of a cliff in the Dayanggou area of Yuhan Mountain, only about two kilometers from his home. His right hand was tightly gripping his phone, which had run out of battery, suggesting that he had tried to call for help but was unsuccessful. Authorities preliminarily ruled out foul play, concluding that Su likely misjudged the route due to darkness, fog, and nearsightedness, and fell while attempting to climb over a railing.

The incident sparked public discussion about family communication and emotional support. While the family denied that marriage pressure was a direct cause of the tragedy, describing the argument as trivial, online conversations highlighted the emotional struggles faced by adults and emphasized the importance of safety during outdoor activities, especially when alone. Rescue teams also urged the public not to make malicious assumptions about the family, emphasizing that the accident was unrelated to family conflict. The case underscores the challenges modern urban youth face in managing family pressure, emotional well-being, and outdoor safety, prompting wider societal reflection.